What is Swinging?
Swinging is the practice of people having sex with people other than their
life partner.
This use of alternate partners is done with the partners knowledge, or the
person having sex is a cheat, not a swinger.
Most swingers are couples, whop with their partners explore their sexual
fantasies with other couples or singles. Most of these couples will play
together, which means that there are a lot of group sex sessions where there
will be 3, 4 or more people having sex together.
Over the last 20 years most of the women have explored their bi-sexuality,
but it is only over the last 5 years that male bi-sexuality has been acceptable.
However, bi-sexuality is a choice, not a requirement to be a swinger.
Swinging is about respect:
- respect by each partner for their partners sexual needs
- respect by each partner for their partners boundaries
- respect by everyone for the boundaries of the people they meet
- respect for the word NO - if anyone in the swinging scene says no while
having sex, or when approached by someone else, it means stop!. To continue
touching or attempting to have sex with someone after they have been told no
is committing a sexual assault or rape.
- respect for people choice not to meet, or upon meeting to decide not to
play. Swingers meet for fun. If any person in the group does not like the
looks, manners or attitude of the other people, it is their right to decide
not to take things further. No one should get upset or give abuse, as the
next time around it could be you that does not fancy the other people.
Swinging has been known as several titles in the past.
- The Lifestyle
- Wife Swapping
- Partner Swapping
- Sharing or sharers
but swinging is the most commonly used term. In the USA the most common name
is "The lifestyle".
For a more in depth look at swinging visit the site "What
is Swinging" where the above topics are all visited in more depth.
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